Hypnotherapy Brighton, Hove & Lewes

Overcoming Sexual Issues

Impotence (Erectile Dysfunction)


Overcoming Sexual Abuse

Impotence (Erectile Dysfunction)

Probably the worst name one could imagine giving such a condition, Impotence is indicated when an erection is consistently difficult or impossible to produce, despite arousal. As a name, erectile dysfunction is really not much better either.

Stress and Performance anxiety have a big impact on our ability to gain an erection. Anxiety inhibits sexual function; if being chased by a predator the last thing we need to be considering at thatv moment is reproduction.

Difficulty getting, or maintaining and erection can be very shameful and cause deep embarrassement. After a prolongued period of sexual difficulties, it can be common to start expecting that it won't; to get a negative association towards sex, and perhaps wishing to avoid it in one way or another.

Hypnosis can be a good way to help resolve anxiety issues, rehearse different potential scenrios regarding sex and create a different association to it.

While I have discussed mainly anxiety based issues, there can be various causes. Some of which are treatable medical conditions. It is therefore advisable that you consult a doctor or specialist to rule out any medical issues such as cardio-vascular disease, diabetes, neurological problems, hormonal insufficiencies or side affects from drugs.

Generally speaking though, if you get an erection in the morning or at any other time, it is likely that the problem is psychological.

If you choose to see me regarding this issue we will explore the psychological elements that impact. These can be power imbalances in the relationship as well as unhelpful beliefs and ideals around it.

It is perhaps also worthy of noting that this is an issue I have some previous personal experience with and sensitivity to.

Over the years I have seen many clients for this concern.

Feel free to call me on 07949 989986 for your complimentary consultation to ascertain how I could help you to become fulfilled in this area.

Go to my Hypnosis Downloads page for an abundance of Sexually related downloads that you can purchase to help you, help yourself.

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If you have been suffering from Vaginismus, you will have found that it affects your ability to engage in vaginal penetration. This may include sexual intercourse, insertion of tampons, as well as the penetration involved in gynaecological examinations.

Vaginismus is the result of a conditioned reflex of the "PC muscle", which is an unconscious response causing the muscles in the vagina to tense suddenly. This makes vaginal penetration either painful or impossible.

The severity of Vaginismus and the pain during penetration, including sexual penetration, varies from woman to woman, but it can be a very uncomfortable experience.

The discomfort is not only physical however, as this can strongly affect the way in which one relates sex, and also cause impacts in the relationship. The sense of shame can often be one of the most difficult parts of this issue, which is often one people find hard to confront either in therapy, or everyday life.

As this is an unconscious response, Hypnotherapy can help by gently using metaphors and accessing the unconscious mind to prepare the mind and body to relax deeply in the situation.

You should be aware that although I have what is generally a females name, I am a gentleman. I completely understand if you would prefer to see a woman for this. However, I have worked upon this with various women over the years and bring sensitivity and compassion to it. With a good understanding of some the key issues and having helped people achieve some very positive results. You can see one of these in my Testimonials.

Perhaps you have been single for a while and would like to overcome this so you feel you can enter into relationship with someone.

Maybe you are already in a relationship and want to make changes to enhance your sexual fulfilment.

Please do feel free to call me for a no pressure or obligation complimentary telephone consultation on 07949 989986 and see for yourself whether you feel this is something I could help you with.

Please note: Vaginismus can be affected physically alongside an Eating Disorder, but sometimes also as the bodies protection after having experienced sexual abuse. These issues may need to be worked upon first to help resolve them before considering work upon Vaginismus.

Go to my Hypnosis Downloads page for an abundance of Sexually related downloads that you can purchase to help you, help yourself.

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Overcoming Sexual Abuse

Please read Overcoming Abusive Behaviour on my Love & Relationships page and PTSD may also be some help if you have suffered trauma as a result of Sexual Abuse.

Go to my Hypnosis Downloads page for an abundance of Sexually related downloads that you can purchase to help you, help yourself.

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Possibilities Unlimited Hypnotherapy

Therapy Room: 9 Bartholomews, Brighton, East Sussex, BN1 1HG

Email: info@possie.co.uk

Mobile: 07949989986

*Disclaimer: Results may vary from person to person.